How should I handle complaints?

Q. How do I deal with an upset customer without making the situation worse?


A. Start with a positive attitude toward customer complaints. Only one in 27 dissatisfied customers will bother to say anything to you, notes STORES magazine, so be thankful for the opportunity to turn a negative into a positive.

“If a customer takes the time to complain about something, they’re giving you a gift,” said Janelle Barlow, co-author with Claus Moller of A Complaint Is a Gift: Using Customer Feedback as a Strategic Tool. “Complaints are a chance to make improvements and win over customers.”

Here are some tips for defusing an angry customer:

• Stay calm and avoid being defensive. Getting angry yourself will only escalate the encounter into an argument.

• Listen attentively. Often the frustrated person simply wants to vent to a sympathetic individual.

• Thank the customer for bringing the situation to your attention. (Remember, the complainer is giving you an opportunity to prevent future customer dissatisfaction.)

• Agree with the person whenever you can to establish rapport, advises Laura Laaman, author of The Dolphin Dynamic. Acknowledging that “this shouldn’t have happened” puts you on the customer’s side.

• Apologize. Even if the problem isn’t your store’s fault, you can still say, “I’m sorry this caused you so much inconvenience.”

• Ask what you can do to correct the problem. “Most confrontations go on much longer than needed, merely because we never take the trouble to find out what the other side wants!” said Laaman.

Many customers are not expecting a positive resolution. Hearing their response gives you an opportunity to go above and beyond their expectations.

Al Arens, president of Life Enhancing Programs in Alma, suggests asking, “How would you like this to be handled?” If you know that solution is not possible, ask “What would be the next best solution?”

• Take action immediately to correct or make up for the bad situation, to whatever extent possible. Go to a higher-up if needed.

Review the solution with the customer to make sure both of you understand what steps will be taken. Confirm that the resolution is satisfactory.

• Whenever possible, make changes in policies or procedures to prevent future complaints.

• Consider following up with a note and a small gift. Going the extra mile to show your concern and make amends will often win the customer’s loyalty.

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