Milford store weaves fabric of community

Michigan was not yet a state when Ansley Arms and Jabesh Mead opened their general store in Milford in 1836. Western Oakland County was little more than wilderness at the time, and one can imagine pioneering farmers and traveling fur trappers mingling in the store around the warmth of an iron stove, swapping tales from the wilds of Michigan.

There’s no iron stove with a crackling fire in today’s store, but Arms Brothers - now a men’s clothier - is still a community gathering place. Owner Thomas Motley, after nearly 50 years in the business and decades of involvement in community organizations, usually knows the latest news on people and events around Milford.

Motley and his sole employee, Ron Barnette, a 28-year veteran, always have a friendly word for the people who parade through the store each day: customers, fellow downtown retailers, locals seeking advice, former Milford residents looking for news of old friends, kids on their way to music lessons using the store as a shortcut.

“I never know who’s going to walk in the door,” said Motley. “I meet the nicest people. That’s what makes this business fun.”

Motley says focusing on people is a big reason for the store’s long history of success.

“Personalized service is what has kept us in business for 166 years,” he said. “If you’re nice to people, they will be nice back. I think that’s why Ron and I have survived.”

Arms Brothers was honored by the Michigan Retailers Association last year as a Michigan Centennial Retailer. It is the oldest store discovered so far in the two years of the program, which recognizes retail businesses that have been in operation for 100 years or more.

The store’s history is apparent in its oak display cases, leaded glass windows and the vintage items displayed throughout the store: antique sleighs, radios, musical instruments, bikes, skis and even a wooden canoe. Motley still uses a 1914 cash register to ring up sales.

“If there’s a power failure, I can still wait on the customers,” he said. “And it’s a good conversation piece.”

The atmosphere may be nostalgic, but Motley makes sure his merchandise - which includes formal business attire, casual wear, shoes and accessories - isn’t stuck in the past.

“You have to stay one step ahead of consumers or you’ll lose them,” he said.

His biggest challenge is getting the new people who move into the rapidly growing community to begin shopping at his store. Once they come in the first time, he’s confident that high-quality merchandise and service will win their business.

Those characteristics have already won the loyalty of his current clientele, some of whom have moved out of the area but still come back to shop from as far away as Lansing, Flint, Ann Arbor and Detroit.

“You’ve got to have new customers to survive, but you’ve got to take good care of your current customers because they already know you’re there,” he said. “Word-of-mouth is the best advertising I can ask for.”

Motley, a Milford native, bought the business in 1979 after working under the third and fourth generations of the Arms family to operate the store.

He began working at Arms Brothers in 1952 as a freshman in high school. His father had recently died in a car accident, and owners Theron Arms Sr. and Theron Arms Jr. helped fill the fatherly void in his life.

Motley came in before school to sweep, dust and run errands and returned after class to clean up and prepare for closing. He earned $8 per week for his labors.

“That’s how I got started,” he said. “I saved money, too - I put $2 a week in the bank.”

Taking over the business was “a dream come true,” said Motley. He originally planned to open two additional locations, but decided to concentrate on the Milford store rather than deal with the headaches of being an absentee owner.

“As a retailer you’re not going to get rich, so why not be happy and be involved in your business and your community?” he said.

Community involvement is a major part of Motley’s life. He was the first chair of the Downtown Development Authority and continues to serve on the board. After chairing the Milford Business Association for 20 years, he now serves as treasurer. He organizes the downtown’s annual Christmas Open House, which features live bands and choirs and a visit from Santa and his reindeer. Motley was also a longtime board member of the Huron Valley Chamber of Commerce and Milford’s Zoning Board of Appeals.

“Being in business has given me the opportunity to be involved in the community,” he said. “If you’re going to take from a community, you’ve got to give back.”

Motley anticipates retiring from retail in the near future and hopes to turn the business over to Barnette, who does most of the buying and is more of a partner than an employee.

But Motley has no intentions of withdrawing from the community scene. In fact, he’s already filed to run for Oakland County commissioner this year.

“I have too much energy left to give to go out and not do anything,” he said.

Meanwhile, he enjoys the daily interaction in the store with customers and potential customers, many of whom are descendents of people he served in the store as a teen.

“I don’t call this a job,” he said. “I call it an adventure. Every day is a new adventure for me.”

This article was written by Michigan Retailer staff writer Rachel Whitaker.

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